Autism and Sexual Diversity

The Link Between Sexual Diversity and Autism
IN BRIEF

Most studies indicate that autistic people are more likely to be part of the sexual diversity spectrum. Some hypotheses suggest this is partly because autistic individuals tend to reject all forms of social norms.

Therefore, if an autistic person feels attracted to individuals of the same gender, they are more likely to integrate this aspect of their identity compared to a neurotypical person.

This is also why autistic people are more likely to engage in ethical non-monogamy.

An autistic person who is also part of the sexual diversity spectrum may face discrimination in healthcare systems, workplaces, public services (and more) due to this dual difference. As a result, many neurodivergent queer individuals go undiagnosed or lack access to support.

What Is Sexual Diversity?

Sexual Orientation

Sexual orientation refers to sexual (and possibly romantic) attraction to another gender, regardless of which. Sexual orientation is also a spectrum encompassing various feelings and possibilities, such as homosexuality, bisexuality, heterosexuality, asexuality, and more.

Sexual Diversity

Sexual diversity is a term used to describe all variations in sexual characteristics and attractions. All individuals identifying within the realm of sexual diversity are part of the LGBTQ+ community (the letters L, G, and B in the acronym specifically refer to lesbian, gay, and bisexual identities).

Important

It is essential to debunk the persistent myth that autistic people have no sexuality. This is entirely false. Autistic individuals of all levels, like all human beings, have a sexuality. Sensory issues may bring unique characteristics (hypo- or hypersensitivity), but desire and sexuality are integral parts of their lives.

While autistic individuals are more likely to identify as asexual, they are also more likely to have a strong need for sensory stimulation related to sexuality. This can even lead to making sexuality a specific interest.

Some Statistics

Determining the exact percentage of LGBTQ+ individuals is challenging, as taboos surrounding the subject still prevent studies from providing an accurate picture.

Autistic people who identify as non-heterosexual
Non-autistic people who identify as non-heterosexual

Free translation: “Being autistic benefits my polyamory, and being polyamorous benefits my autism. I love and embrace both identities and consider them inherently linked. I also see my autism as connected to my queerness. Gender, like monogamy, has never really made sense to me, and I was more than willing to throw societal scripts out the window so I could write my own. Both queer and polyamorous communities accept non-conventionality, which gives me a sense of belonging. I feel most comfortable among other groups often ostracized by society.”

Being Autistic and LGBTQ+

Intersectionality of the Two Identities

Autistic individuals are more likely to experience discrimination due to their neurodivergence, and LGBTQ+ individuals are more likely to face discrimination due to their sexual orientation.

What happens when a person is both autistic and LGBTQ+?

In summary, an autistic person who is also part of the sexual diversity spectrum may face discrimination in healthcare systems, workplaces, public services, and more due to this dual difference. This results in many queer neurodivergent individuals going undiagnosed and/or unsupported.

Interesting Fact
What Is Ethical Non-Monogamy?

This is an umbrella term for a style of love in which individuals engage with one or more romantic or sexual partners simultaneously. The term "ethical" is crucial, as it encompasses the consent, understanding, and enthusiastic participation required from everyone involved, distinguishing it from cheating. Clear rules are established, which can make relationships easier for autistic individuals. There are many ways to be non-monogamous, including polyamory, open relationships, swinging, and more.

How to Do Better?

There are many ways to improve, both as individuals and as a society. Staying informed, respecting individuals, and improving accessibility to safe services are key solutions.

As an Individual

As a Society

Mani Lamarre

Specialized educator