The Link Between Sexual Diversity and AutismIN BRIEF
Most studies indicate that autistic people are more likely to be part of the sexual diversity spectrum. Some hypotheses suggest this is partly because autistic individuals tend to reject all forms of social norms.
Therefore, if an autistic person feels attracted to individuals of the same gender, they are more likely to integrate this aspect of their identity compared to a neurotypical person.
This is also why autistic people are more likely to engage in ethical non-monogamy.
An autistic person who is also part of the sexual diversity spectrum may face discrimination in healthcare systems, workplaces, public services (and more) due to this dual difference. As a result, many neurodivergent queer individuals go undiagnosed or lack access to support.

What Is Sexual Diversity?
Sexual Orientation
Sexual orientation refers to sexual (and possibly romantic) attraction to another gender, regardless of which. Sexual orientation is also a spectrum encompassing various feelings and possibilities, such as homosexuality, bisexuality, heterosexuality, asexuality, and more.
Sexual Diversity
Sexual diversity is a term used to describe all variations in sexual characteristics and attractions. All individuals identifying within the realm of sexual diversity are part of the LGBTQ+ community (the letters L, G, and B in the acronym specifically refer to lesbian, gay, and bisexual identities).
Important
It is essential to debunk the persistent myth that autistic people have no sexuality. This is entirely false. Autistic individuals of all levels, like all human beings, have a sexuality. Sensory issues may bring unique characteristics (hypo- or hypersensitivity), but desire and sexuality are integral parts of their lives.
While autistic individuals are more likely to identify as asexual, they are also more likely to have a strong need for sensory stimulation related to sexuality. This can even lead to making sexuality a specific interest.
Some Statistics
Determining the exact percentage of LGBTQ+ individuals is challenging, as taboos surrounding the subject still prevent studies from providing an accurate picture.
- Depending on the sources, 10% to 18% of the general population are part of the LGBTQ+ community.
- Autistic individuals are 6 to 8 times more likely to be part of the sexual diversity spectrum.
- Some studies even suggest that 70% of autistic individuals identify as non-heterosexual, compared to 30% of non-autistic individuals.
Free translation: “Being autistic benefits my polyamory, and being polyamorous benefits my autism. I love and embrace both identities and consider them inherently linked. I also see my autism as connected to my queerness. Gender, like monogamy, has never really made sense to me, and I was more than willing to throw societal scripts out the window so I could write my own. Both queer and polyamorous communities accept non-conventionality, which gives me a sense of belonging. I feel most comfortable among other groups often ostracized by society.”
Leanne Yau, Autistic Polyamorous Individual
Being Autistic and LGBTQ+
Intersectionality of the Two Identities
Autistic individuals are more likely to experience discrimination due to their neurodivergence, and LGBTQ+ individuals are more likely to face discrimination due to their sexual orientation.
What happens when a person is both autistic and LGBTQ+?
- This person experiences two forms of marginalization and discrimination, a phenomenon known as intersectionality.
- In general, LGBTQ+ individuals are less likely to receive the healthcare they deserve, and consequently, less likely to be diagnosed with conditions such as autism and access corresponding care.
- LGBTQ+ pride spaces are unfortunately often unsuitable for the sensory needs of autistic individuals (e.g., bars, pride parades, etc.).
In summary, an autistic person who is also part of the sexual diversity spectrum may face discrimination in healthcare systems, workplaces, public services, and more due to this dual difference. This results in many queer neurodivergent individuals going undiagnosed and/or unsupported.
Interesting FactWhat Is Ethical Non-Monogamy?
This is an umbrella term for a style of love in which individuals engage with one or more romantic or sexual partners simultaneously. The term "ethical" is crucial, as it encompasses the consent, understanding, and enthusiastic participation required from everyone involved, distinguishing it from cheating. Clear rules are established, which can make relationships easier for autistic individuals. There are many ways to be non-monogamous, including polyamory, open relationships, swinging, and more.
How to Do Better?
There are many ways to improve, both as individuals and as a society. Staying informed, respecting individuals, and improving accessibility to safe services are key solutions.
As an Individual
- Be an ally by respecting a person’s right to self-identify through their sexual orientation.
- Provide a safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals by listening to their reality, respecting their needs, and avoiding judgment.
- Avoid asking intrusive questions about their sexuality. No one likes discussing their love or sex life unprompted and with just anyone.
- Intervene and create dialogue whenever witnessing homophobia.
- Use films, podcasts, and social media videos to better understand the reality of LGBTQ+ individuals.
- Commit to staying informed to understand and share the culture of individuals with disabilities and LGBTQ+ communities.
- Be yourself. Celebrate others. Allow yourself to be authentic in all aspects of life, both personal and professional.

As a Society
- Offer safe spaces. These are designated environments where people feel secure and free from judgment. This could be an office, building, event, business, or even a virtual space such as an online group or course.
- Create spaces for self-exploration, where individuals feel safe sharing their experiences, fears, solutions, and tools.
- Foster welcoming spaces for dialogue among people of all identities and spectra.
- Enhance knowledge about the issues faced by LGBTQ+ and neurodiverse communities, and promote their self-determination.
- Provide comprehensive sexual education that addresses intersections between neurodiversity and sexual diversity.
- Medical professionals (practitioners, researchers, and experts) working with autistic individuals should stay informed about the latest academic research and best practices in clinical support, considering the needs of the LGBTQ+ community.
For More Information (French)
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